When I ask Siri to call my wife it calls the wrong person

I did, but that didn’t resolve the problem. What resolved it was removing the description in the contacts notes that Siri was using instead of my wife.

I found the answer, the details under the contact in the notes field, company, or title had “wife of….” As a description/tag . Siri is reading those notes when searching for who to call rather than making the family relationship a priority when listening and searching.