i have a recurring chargefrom apple for $7.99 a month. i want to know where this charge is being made from and how to cancel it

Here is a one-stop link for billing questions→Subscriptions and Billing - Official Apple Support. You can review your purchase history, cancel a subscription and request refunds.

MDofDEATH wrote:

Settings>AppleID>Subscriptions should give you any item you're paying and/or paid for recently.

No, it doesn’t have ALL things you are paying for. As an example, it does not include the monthly charge for iCloud+. Purchase History does, but not Subscriptions. (A subtle point, I know).

Settings>AppleID>Subscriptions should give you any item you're paying and/or paid for recently.