Setting up an apple watch

OK, try pinging it from the iPhone with the Find My app, that sometimes helps.

If still stuck, where does it go with the hard reset?

• Press and hold both the side button and Digital Crown for at least 10 seconds, then release both buttons when you see the Apple logo.

Which step is that exactly? Is this already happening?

When the update completes, your Apple Watch restarts on its own.

Update your Apple Watch - Apple Support

Same thing and itsnot finishing the update its just stuck

Still not workin sir

it is still stuck in the apple watch app on that sentence and not updatin my apple watch

Sometimes hard resetting the iPhone can help:

Steps are:

1. Press Volume Up and let go.
2. Press Volume Down and let go.
3. Press and hold the side button.

If the issue still remains, maybe best to contact Apple Support next. Get Support