As we are all Apple users, like yourself, no-one here knows the full number either.
We have no access to your accounts or details.
On your iPhone : Look in Settings > [your name] > Sign-In & Security.
Check the email addresses and phone numbers you can use to sign in.
or
If you read carefully through the linked user tip:
Eg: says" " If you lost / can't reach the trusted device or phone number associated with your Apple ID" It then gives info. about using a recovery key instead.
If using a recovery key is of no help: As a last resource, the user tip explains :
"If you can’t sign in, access a trusted device, reset your password, or receive verification codes, you can request account recovery to regain access to your account. "