How do I disable "Bring To Front" Feature in Finder?

You can send direct feedback to the macOS Product team with a feature request. However, macOS Finder has not had automatic window activation (focus follow mouse) by passing the mouse over it for the last 25 years. There is no means to do what you want in the present implementation of macOS and no new feature updates will be coming to Sonoma.

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Shetrit wrote:

You can use Mission Control (F3 or Ctrl + Up Arrow) to select the desired window. This approach avoids the "Bring to Front" behavior associated with switching with Command + Tab.

I don't think that this is what the OP was complaining about. The issue is you have a window that is visible on your screen, you want to act on it (like press a button there), and you have to first click once to activate the window, then click again to press the button. He'd like the click to get through without activating the window first. It does not work that way in macOS.

You can use Mission Control (F3 or Ctrl + Up Arrow) to select the desired window. This approach avoids the "Bring to Front" behavior associated with switching with Command + Tab.

Focus follows mouse was a configurable setting for X Window based displays on my past UNIX platforms and Linux. There is a defaults write command for allowing this with the macOS Terminal (only) windows but only after one clicks on the first of multiple Terminal windows from another application window.

ElectricEsthetic wrote:

And it has been a pain for the last 25 years let me tell yah.

Hopefully it's the worst thing that happens in your life.