How does iOS keep prompting my iCloud family members to disable location sharing with me?

Because my parents are getting older, I turned on their location sharing to me (indefinitely, via invite over iMessage, as well as in privacy/location services), and this helps with knowing where they are and finding lost items, etc.  They are members of my iCloud+ family subscription.


But for some reason, it seems that iOS is often prompting them to turn off location sharing with me, and they just press "ok" not knowing what that is, etc. Why is it doing this, can anyone help with understanding why this is happening? 


It even circumvents the screen time restriction we have placed on changing location sharing settings.


It's pretty frustrating, because I then have to guide them through how to reactivate location sharing over the phone, which as you might imagine is complicated to describe to someone who is not adept at changing iPhone settings.


Thanks!


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Original Title: Why does iOS keep prompting my iCloud family members to turn off location sharing to me?


iPhone 13 Pro, iOS 18

Posted on Jun 16, 2025 04:18 PM

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Jun 25, 2025 12:30 PM in response to kuenley

Apple’s system is designed with privacy-first defaults, which includes occasional prompts or reminders to users that they’re sharing their location — especially indefinitely. These prompts may appear:

  • After major iOS updates or device restarts
  • When the system detects location sharing without recent interaction
  • As part of a “privacy suggestion” encouraging users to review long-term location sharing settings

Even though you’ve set up Family Sharing, iOS treats location sharing as a personal, per-device, per-user setting — and users can be prompted to revoke it, even under Screen Time restrictions.


Why Screen Time Isn’t Blocking It

While Screen Time > Content & Privacy > Location Services can restrict access to changing the Location Services toggle, it does not restrict:

  • Tapping prompts like “Stop Sharing Location” that appear as banners or alerts
  • Responding to iOS privacy suggestion pop-ups

These prompts are built into iOS’s user-facing consent model and can override Screen Time limitations, unfortunately.


What You Can Do

1. Enable “Share My Location” via Family Sharing Instead of Manual Share

Since they’re part of your iCloud+ Family Group:

  • On their device: Settings > [name] > Family Sharing > Location Sharing
  • Tap your name and select “Share My Location”
  • This method is sometimes more persistent than doing it via iMessage

2. Disable Significant Location Prompts (Limited Impact)

On their devices:

  • Go to Settings > Privacy & Security > Location Services > System Services
  • Turn off “Location-Based Alerts” and “Location-Based Suggestions”
This reduces the likelihood of location-related pop-ups

3. Train for “Ignore” vs “OK”

Create a simple, visual guide (screenshots or printed reference) that shows them what to tap (or not tap) if a location-sharing prompt pops up.

4. Use Find My Network for Items Only

If part of the goal is to track devices or AirTags, ensure that those are added directly under your account where possible — not shared manually by them.


Bottom Line

iOS will occasionally prompt users to review location sharing for privacy reasons, and unfortunately, this can’t be completely disabled — even with Screen Time. The best workaround is to use Family Sharing’s built-in location sharing, minimize system prompts, and provide your parents with a clear guide on how to respond if they see a pop-up.

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