What is the partition type of your internal SSD? It should be GUID, if it is instead MBR (aka Master Boot Record), then APFS options will not be available. I haven't seen GUID listed in any of the pictures. You may need to click on the physical drive in order to see the partition type. Or you can launch the Terminal app and issue the following command:
diskutil list internal
FYI, you need to rotate your pictures on your iPhone/iPad. Unfortunately Apple's devices love to twist the pictures around no matter how carefully you try to hold the device in a neutral angle....very frustrating. Here is an Apple article with instructions for rotating pictures on your iPhone/iPad, I'm sure Android devices have a similar ability:
Crop, rotate, flip, or straighten photos and videos on iPhone - Apple Support
If you don't notice the photo is incorrectly oriented until you attach the picture, then just delete the picture from the forum editing window, edit the photon on the phone/tablet, and reattach.