I am unable to update my iPhone XR
It is not updating
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iPhone XR, iOS 17
What are you trying to update to exactly?
And on what device?
For an iPhone XR (as shown in your tag line) the most current iOS version it can update to at the time of writing is iOS 17.6.1.
Is that what you have?
If not, what iOS version is your iPhone currently running? Settings ➜ General ➜ About ➜ iOS Version.
What happens when you go to Settings ➜ General ➜ Software Update exactly?
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Explain your issue, and provide relevant details, and someone may be able to advise.