iOS 17 Contact Card

Hey retiredmailwoman,

Apologies. Here's the link for an iPhone instead: Add and use contact information on iPhone - Apple Support As noted in that article, all information on the contact card will be shared with the person you are sharing it with.

Take care.

Hi retiredmailwoman,

If you don’t want to share notes or photos in contact cards, choose Contacts > Settings, click vCard, then deselect the “Export notes” and “Export photos” checkboxes. You can read those details here: Share a contact in Contacts on Mac - Apple Support

If you continue to have issues, reach out to Apple Support after a few steps here: Get Support

Good luck!