How do you get money off Apple ID to Apple Cash

In general, once money in “on” your AppleID, it’s considered “pre-expended” and is no longer refundable.

It can only be “exchanged” for Apple goods and services.

See the section, “If you have Apple Account balance that you can't use” in this article:

Check your Apple Account balance - Apple Support

I have put money on my Apple Pay that seems that it didn’t work on some thing that was trying to purchase so I added it to my Apple ID thinking it would work but you didn’t. So now I’m trying to get the money out of my Apple ID sent back to my Apple Pay is that possible?

Unless explicitly required by local law, once monies are “on” your Apple Account Balance, they are non-refundable.

They may only be “exchanged” for Apple goods and services.

See more detail here:

What you can buy with your Apple Gift Card or Apple Account balance - Apple Support

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