My airpods wont connect I have tried everything

Did you follow the step mentioned in this article?

Pair AirPods (1st, 2nd, or 3rd generation) - Apple Support

Did you already reset your AirPods?

How to reset your AirPods and AirPods Pro - Apple Support

Have they been successfully paired to your iPhone in the past?

Can your iPhone see the AirPods in Settings/Bluetooth?

Did you force restart your iPhone?

Force restart iPhone - Apple Support

Which AirPods are you trying to connect, and which iOS is installed on your iPhone?