APPLE WATCH CONTACTS for Family Share

I have 2 apple watches for kids using FAMILY SHARE. One watch allows me to edit contacts and the other watch says PENDING and wont allow me to add or delete contacts. What is up I have read several threads that others experience the same issues. have reset etc....no help at all. HOW and WHERE does the request go that is PENDING to my kids watch and can anyone let me know how this was fixed. APPLE you have an issue here...


Posted on Jan 18, 2023 08:33 AM

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Posted on Jan 19, 2023 04:02 PM

Hello dale johannes,


Thanks for using Apple Support Communities. Make sure that your child has iCloud Contacts enabled. As mentioned in Set up Screen Time for a family member on iPhone, "you can only manage your family member’s communication if they’re using Contacts in iCloud."


"Set communication limits on a family member’s device

You can block incoming and outgoing communication on your family member’s device—including phone calls, FaceTime calls, and messages—from specific contacts, either at all times or during certain periods.

  1. If you haven’t already turned on Contacts in iCloud on your family member’s device, go to Settings  > [child’s name] > iCloud, then turn on Contacts.

Note: You can only manage your family member’s communication if they’re using Contacts in iCloud.

2. On your family member’s device, go to Settings > Screen Time.

3. If you haven’t already turned on Screen Time, tap Turn On Screen Time, tap Continue, then tap This is My Child’s iPhone.

4. Tap Communication Limits, then do any of the following:

    • Limit communication at any time: Tap During Screen Time, then select Contacts Only, Contacts & Groups with at Least One Contact, or Everyone.
    • Limit communication during downtime: Tap During Downtime. The option you selected for During Screen Time is already set here. You can change this setting to Specific Contacts.
    • If you select Specific Contacts, then tap either Choose From My Contacts or Add New Contact to select people you want to allow communication with during downtime.
    • Manage a child’s contacts: If you’re using Family Sharing, you can view, edit, add, or delete your child’s contacts. Tap Manage [child’s name] Contacts.

If your child already has contacts in iCloud, they receive a notification on their device asking them to approve the request to manage them. If they don’t have contacts, they don’t get a notification and you can immediately add contacts.

When you manage your child’s contacts, a new row appears beneath Manage [child’s name] Contacts to show how many contacts your child has. Tap the row to view and edit the contacts.

    • Allow contact editing: Tap Allow Contact Editing to turn off this option and prevent your child from editing their contacts.

Turning off contact editing and limiting communication at any time to Contacts Only is a good way to control who your child can communicate with and when they can be contacted."


All the best.


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Jan 19, 2023 04:02 PM in response to dale johannes

Hello dale johannes,


Thanks for using Apple Support Communities. Make sure that your child has iCloud Contacts enabled. As mentioned in Set up Screen Time for a family member on iPhone, "you can only manage your family member’s communication if they’re using Contacts in iCloud."


"Set communication limits on a family member’s device

You can block incoming and outgoing communication on your family member’s device—including phone calls, FaceTime calls, and messages—from specific contacts, either at all times or during certain periods.

  1. If you haven’t already turned on Contacts in iCloud on your family member’s device, go to Settings  > [child’s name] > iCloud, then turn on Contacts.

Note: You can only manage your family member’s communication if they’re using Contacts in iCloud.

2. On your family member’s device, go to Settings > Screen Time.

3. If you haven’t already turned on Screen Time, tap Turn On Screen Time, tap Continue, then tap This is My Child’s iPhone.

4. Tap Communication Limits, then do any of the following:

    • Limit communication at any time: Tap During Screen Time, then select Contacts Only, Contacts & Groups with at Least One Contact, or Everyone.
    • Limit communication during downtime: Tap During Downtime. The option you selected for During Screen Time is already set here. You can change this setting to Specific Contacts.
    • If you select Specific Contacts, then tap either Choose From My Contacts or Add New Contact to select people you want to allow communication with during downtime.
    • Manage a child’s contacts: If you’re using Family Sharing, you can view, edit, add, or delete your child’s contacts. Tap Manage [child’s name] Contacts.

If your child already has contacts in iCloud, they receive a notification on their device asking them to approve the request to manage them. If they don’t have contacts, they don’t get a notification and you can immediately add contacts.

When you manage your child’s contacts, a new row appears beneath Manage [child’s name] Contacts to show how many contacts your child has. Tap the row to view and edit the contacts.

    • Allow contact editing: Tap Allow Contact Editing to turn off this option and prevent your child from editing their contacts.

Turning off contact editing and limiting communication at any time to Contacts Only is a good way to control who your child can communicate with and when they can be contacted."


All the best.


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