Can I turn off the feature to unsend a message so someone can’t I send a message to me?

Hi srg1998,

Thank you for participating in the Apple Support Communities. It looks like you came from the following support article: Use Messages on your iPhone or iPad - Apple Support

Here is a link with details on what you are able to do with this feature: Unsend and edit messages on iPhone - Apple Support

If you would like to leave feedback for Apple on this, here is where you can do so: Product Feedback - Apple

Have a great day.