How to update to iOS 16?

Follow the steps outlined in the following link. It explains how to update: click here ➡️ Update your iPhone or iPad - Apple Support

If it issues and error or otherwise cannot update, you will need to update through a compute. In that case follow the steps here: click here ➡️ if you're using a Mac with macOS Catalina or later, or click here ➡️ if you're using a Mac with macOS Mojave or earlier or a Windows PC.

Update it from a computer or through the Software Update function in Settings. If you encounter a specific issue, describe it in this thread.

For reference, most of the people who answer questions on these boards are other customers, not Apple employees.

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