Hi Brandon, thanks for your help! There are a couple of things that have happened since I posted. The wifi found the network and joined our network as normal but then it went off again awhile later. Same thing, wifi button was greyed out and the same network preference error was given when I went to network settings. Since then it sometimes will find the network if I start in safe mode then wait 30 seconds and restart. Sometimes this works and sometimes it doesn’t. So the problem seems intermittent.
I ran apple diagnostics as per your suggestion and there were no codes… all was good. The first time I ran it, my wifi was working so I ran it online- no codes. I tried it again but selected offline, again no codes all was good. So I waited til wifi disappeared again and retried the process but the system didn’t let me run it without being connected to the internet so I’m not sure why.
I have an intel processor and when I ran the process for apple diagnostics it was a bit different than described in the link you sent. I held down the D while the laptop was starting up. Rather than a progress bar or a language preference, I got a page where I needed to choose a network and so when I tried running the diagnostics when the wifi wasn’t available it wouldn’t procede past that. I am wondering if this could be a problem originating with my internet provider. The weird thing is that we have 2 phones, another laptop and a desktop that are all able to join the network. What do you think?