i forgot my passcode to my ipad can you help

See the Apple Support article(s) below for IOS 15.2 or later..

Passcode - How to reset your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch when you forgot your passcode (IOS 15.2 or later)

See the Apple Support article(s) below for earlier than IOS 15.2 . 

Passcode - If you forgot the passcode for your iPad or your device is disabled.     *

Wireless_world wrote:

can you help reset my passcode for my ipad im locked out

If you forgot your iPhone passcode - Apple Support

Did you read/try the links I posted above?

I understand that you forgot your passcode.You need to read the links I posted above for what to do to regain access to your iPad.