iCloud photos not synced between devices
I don't know where to start, but iCloud Photos is all sorts of fubar.
I disabled iCloud Photos on my iPad and iPhone AND deleted every image in the Photos album, but their respective storage still numbers in the GB.
On my Mac iCloud Photos is still enabled, but when logging into iCloud.com/photos it shows that it's "disabled and will delete in 30 days".
I tried to disable iCloud sync on my Mac Photos, but it complains that not all full resolution photos have been downloaded yet. That was hours ago on a 1gig download pipe, so it sure feels like it's stuck and not downloading anything.
Is there an simple way to keep my Photos app on my Mac (currently numbering over 26k images), disable iCloud Photos EVERYWHERE ELSE, and then enable iCloud Photos with the Mac Photos app as the base?
MacBook Pro 16″, macOS 11.3